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Conflicted About Conflict?
Are you opposed to engaging in conflict in your interpersonal relationships? Do you buy into the narrative that “healthy relationships”...

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Aug 15, 20235 min read
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The "Poor Baby" Technique: Instant Relationship Relief!
When I was in my master’s program studying marriage and family therapy, I had a wonderful supervisor who taught me the #1 tip that I...

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May 31, 20234 min read
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Reciprocity in Relationships
Reciprocity: mutual dependence, action, or influence; a mutual exchange of privilege. Reciprocity in relationships is an idea that comes...

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Mar 1, 20234 min read
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Opposite to Emotion Action
Opposite to emotion action is an Emotion Regulation skill from Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. Emotion Regulation is a module that stresses

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Jan 31, 20234 min read
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Holiday Guilt
‘Tis the season to feel… guilty? Although the holidays are often associated with joy, many of us feel complex feelings around the holiday...

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Dec 1, 20226 min read
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From Dread to DEAR MAN!
One of the most frequent DBT skills I find myself teaching in individual therapy is DEAR MAN. This skill comes from the Interpersonal...

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Oct 25, 20226 min read
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Infidelity Recovery
One of the most difficult events that can happen in a relationship is infidelity. Relational safety is leveled to a 0 after an affair,...

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Jul 21, 20224 min read
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Ending Therapy
As a therapist, my main goal for my clients is that they feel relief in their lives and are better able to cope and understand...

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May 31, 20223 min read
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5 of the Most Common Cognitive Distortions I See in Therapy
Cognitive distortions are inaccurate thoughts that influence the ways we see ourselves, others, and the world around us, and ultimately...

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May 4, 20225 min read
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The 5 Basic Emotions Explained!
Easy guide to the 5 basic emotions.

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Apr 6, 20225 min read
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Cultivating Gratitude
You’ve probably already heard the suggestion of keeping a gratitude journal to improve your mental health. Science backs the idea- we are ha

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Mar 1, 20223 min read
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Radical Acceptance: An Alternative to Forgiveness
Are you finding yourself holding onto something unforgivable that someone else has done? Almost all of us have these moments throughout...

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Jan 24, 20224 min read
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The Gift of a Generous Interpretation
In the spirit of the holidays and gift-giving, I’d like to explain why the gift of a generous interpretation is a wonderful gift to give...

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Dec 16, 20213 min read
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Self Compassion 101
Have you ever been told you need to be easier on yourself? Or that you hold yourself to impossible standards? Many of us do!

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Nov 22, 20214 min read
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Holiday Anxiety Prep!
The holidays are quickly approaching and if the idea of spending extended time with loved ones ever gives you anxiety, you are not alone.

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Oct 26, 20215 min read
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Family Therapy: How Can It Help and How Can I Prepare?!
Hesitation over starting family therapy is COMMON and normal. It is scary, but also very brave, to seek to change a family dynamic

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Sep 29, 20213 min read
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